
Establishing Boundaries and Asserting Your Needs
When I dipped my toes into the world of dating I didn’t really get why boundaries mattered so much. I figured being super flexible and accommodating would just make me more likable you know easier to be around. Still as time went on I realized that melting away just to please others wasn't only impossible for the long haul but also not good for my health. Boundaries aren't really about building walls—they're more about making this healthy emotional space where everyone gets room to breathe thrive even. Figuring out how assert my needs has been quite the adventure of self-respect and it's definitely something I'm still perfecting day by day.