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Managing Expectations: Finding a Balance Between Idealism and Realism

Managing Expectations: Finding a Balance Between Idealism and Realism

Expectations in relationships are like two sides of one coin; they can either bring people together or drive them apart. Every time individuals initiate romantic relationships, friendships or engage with their families they carry around certain unseen luggage which contains hope, fear, dream and supposition among others. Such expectations determine how we interact with others and react when reality does not follow our script. I used to think that lowering expectations was equivalent to accepting mediocrity – a compromise on my dreams in life. It wasn’t until later when some were not honored that I experienced real disappointment culminating into resentment. In actual sense, these anticipated outcomes may destroy relationships quietly if left unchecked.

Balancing Career and Love: Dating Tips for Busy Professionals

Balancing Career and Love: Dating Tips for Busy Professionals

Hello colleagues! It’s very tough to have it all – a good job and partner in today’s high-speed reality. I too have been at a fix trying to date with my packed up days full of activities and many appointments due to my understanding of the busy schedule. However, there is hope for us all; in this article, I provide useful dating advice for busy professionals. This is about making the most use of your little spare time to ensure that you remain at a position to excel in your work but still find someone to go out with.