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For some time, the boy did not realize that his outfit could affect his romantic life. Trying to comprehend why he was unsuccessful with ladies– despite being intelligent and good-looking– he concluded it must be down to some indefinable chemistry or what they talked about. Nevertheless, he eventually became aware of the fact that what one wore could have an effect on how one felt: while preparing for a date, for instance, a dress that seemed unsuitable (too tight, too bright, etc.) might cause worries such as ‘Did I put on too many sequins?’ or ‘Is this outfit more appropriate for a day at the zoo than a restaurant?’

If so, these thoughts could distract him from getting ready and make him feel less confident and appealing– thereby affecting his chances! But over time he learned choosing clothes wasn’t about following fashion rules or trying just to impress anyone. He realized it was simply about making sure there was alignment between who he was (his personality), what he was going to do (the date)– and where (the environment).